Seductive Talk

So, you’re looking to add a bit of romance to your relationship. You have the desire, the imagination and the will. You want to connect with your partner and rekindle the spark that used to flow so easily between you. Maybe you’ve even researched the best romantic date nigh ideas for couples. You’re ready to go.

There’s just one little problem. You have kids.

You love your children to bits. They are one of your reasons for being and you connect with your spouse on a much deeper level because of their very existence. They enrich your life on so many levels- but they definitely don’t enrich your dating prospects!

When you have kids, you’re probably exhausted at the end of the day. You’re busy. You can’t exactly go out on a whim anymore, and it feels like a simple date night has become something impossibly complex.

If you’re in this situation, you know how exhausting and depressing this can feel. Luckily- we have you covered. Read on for 10 ways to squeeze in date night on the regular (and rekindle that spark!).

 

1. Schedule a Playdate

This has got to be one of my favorite tips for squeezing in a fun date night. Schedule an evening playdate for your kids. Drop them off at their friend’s house and spend an evening with your partner. If you arrange this right, you can take turns hosting the playdate, so that you, and your friends, can all enjoy some kid-free time!

 

2. Put the Kids to Bed Early

Many of the best date nights take place in your own home. Cheat the clock a little and put the kids to bed earlier. This will give you and your partner more time to enjoy each other’s company. If they have a screen-time limit, this is a good time to cheat and give them an extra hour or so. I can almost guarantee that they’ll be nice and quiet in their rooms.

 

3. Schedule, Schedule, Schedule

This is obvious, but it can’t be said enough. Schedule in your date night! Make sure you have it all arranged, and scheduled in. Write it in your calendar if you need to. Treat it like an appointment or school function. Make it happen and don’t leave it to chance.

    4. Get Dressed Up (Yes, Really!)

Okay, hear me out. I know you’re pressed for time, exhausted and probably can’t even remember when you last got dressed up. But it’s worth it. Try out a new dress or invest in some sexy lingerie. Take the time to wash your hair and spritz on perfume and put on the cleanest clothes that you have. It might seem like a lot of effort, but you’ll feel like a whole new person. Try it- you might just find it works wonders.

 

5. Cook a Grown-Up Meal Together (Throw in Some Wine!)

When was the last time you did this? Most meals consist of kid-friendly dishes, or left-overs, if you’re lucky. This time go all out. Put the kids to bed early, grab some great ingredients and get cooking. Sip on a bottle of good wine and let the conversation flow as you make dinner together. When you’re finished, enjoy the fruits of your labor, as well as some quality time.

 

6. Read Aloud To Each Other

Maybe you’re absolutely exhausted and none of these ideas are really cutting it for you. If you just can’t muster up the energy- don’t fight it. Curl up into bed and grab a book. Instead of binging on Netflix, enjoy some romantic, quality time by reading aloud to each other before falling asleep in each other’s arms. (If you’re looking to spice things up instead, here’s a list of the best erotic stories on the web. You’re welcome.)

 

7. Play a Game Together

This one is great, because you can tailor it to you as a couple. Maybe you’re really into video games. Maybe you prefer a good old-fashioned game of scrabble. If you’re feeling adventurous, you could even play a game of strip poker. It’s cheap, customizable, accessible and fun. What else do you need?

 

8. Go Outside

Yes, really! Even if you’re home with the kids, you can always slip outside and enjoy the night air together. Go onto a patio, balcony or into your own back yard. Grab some chairs, a blanket and enjoy each other’s company. Stargaze, or snuggle- whatever works for you.

 

9. Sick Leave (Shh!)

Desperate times call for desperate measures, but don’t tell your boss that you heard this from us. Take a sick day with your partner, and spend it doing whatever you want. It’s not technically a date night, but if your children are in school, or day care, then this might just be the solution. Co-ordinate it with your partner and make the most of this naughty idea.

 

10. Hit the Town

If you do find yourself with some time on your hands (kid-free, of course), then a great idea is to hit the town. Go catch a movie, go out for coffee and just enjoy each other’s company. Your city is probably full of amazing things- take full advantage of that. Exploring together is a great way to reconnect.

And don’t forget to treat yourself with a piece of Erotic Lingerie or Elegant Lingerie coupled with a body harness fashion lingerie or body chain fashion lingerie!

Now that you’ve read our top ten, and gotten a few romantic date night ideas, it’s time to put this into action. Talk to your partner and schedule something in or shoot us a message.

Even the most hectic schedule deserves a little romance, so what are you waiting for? Let’s make this happen.

Have you ever seen a gorgeous lingerie advert, or something in the shops, and wondered how the heck you could pull it off?

Trust me, I’ve been there. I’ve sat and stared at the beautiful things in the front window and wondered what to get, how to wear it and what is the most flattering for my body type.

I think this is something that all women struggle with, which is why I put together this guide! Read on to discover what you should be wearing and how to pull it off.

 

Colors

When you’re in your 20’s, you can absolutely pull off a range of colors. Bright pink will look cheeky, bold red will look sexy and classic black will look mysterious and elegant.

If you are in doubt, stick to colors that you already wear in your daily life, and model  your erotic lingerie after them. You know what colors flatter your skin tone, so make sure that you choose similar ones in your lingerie life. After all, lingerie is all about feeling confident and looking amazing, so follow your instinct when it comes to color choice. There is no wrong answer here!

 

Shape and fit

This might seem like a tricky one, but it really isn’t! You need to make sure that you are wearing clothes that are flattering to your figure, whatever that may be. If you are big busted, make sure your lingerie offers support. If you are conscious about your stomach, try a corset, or maybe a teddy or baby-doll outfit. If you love your butt, try a thong! It’s okay to experiment, but it is vital to make sure that whatever you choose makes you feel comfortable. When you feel good, you look sexy, and isn’t that an amazing feeling?

 

Matching

Sometimes, we’re too busy to wear extra sexy lingerie. If that’s the case, never underestimate the power of matching your underwear! If your bra and panties are the same color, you will immediately feel on top of the world. This is a great way to boost confidence and get the most out of your lingerie. Understated works can definitely work, especially if you build a matching lingerie wardrobe.

And don’t forget to treat yourself with a piece of Erotic Lingerie or Elegant Lingerie coupled with a body harness fashion lingerie or body chain fashion lingerie!

Hopefully, you’re feeling inspired at this point! Remember, you can wear whatever you want, and I guarantee you’ll look great. Don’t be afraid to take a couple of risks in the name of sexy fashion. I promise you’ll feel amazing for it!

Are you interested in turning his head? Do you want to interest your man, without making it too obvious? Are you looking for something new, something different and something a bit naughty to spice up your day with your boy?

Then you’ve come to the right place. We’ll be talking about the best lingerie tip to spice up your love life, that you absolutely need to learn right away.

Wearing lingerie out in public.

Yes, you heard me right! Don’t click away just yet because this is an absolutely full proof way to make him desperate for you and I wouldn’t want you to miss out!

So, you need to wear lingerie out in public. You might be clutching your pearls at this suggestion, but you need to hear me out. I’m not suggesting that you leave the house almost nude. I’m suggesting that you leave the house wearing something special beneath your clothes or peeking out.

It’s risqué, but it’s classy. And you certainly won’t get into any sort of trouble.

Consider wearing a silk camisole that shows off the barest hint of lace, or the intricate straps of a bra. Maybe you’ll decide to go out in your garters and sexier underwear, and the only thing the public can see are your perfectly professional stockings.

The key here, is that you know you’re wearing something naught and that your significant other does too. If you can do that, I guarantee that he will go absolutely wild for you and will love the risk of the situation, which is otherwise quite tame.

You don’t even have to do this all of the time. Occasionally is enough. Wear something seductive occasionally beneath your clothes, while you’re out an about.

I guarantee that it will absolutely change your world.

And don’t forget to treat yourself with a piece of Erotic Lingerie or Elegant Lingerie coupled with a body harness fashion lingerie or body chain fashion lingerie!

Also, if you are anything like me, you will properly love it!

I don’t know about you, but when I was growing up, I always felt that Sexy Lingerie wasn’t for me. It took me a while to learn that sexy lingerie is for everyone who wants to enjoy it!

I think a lot of this misconception stems from advice that we from our parents. Read on to discover the biggest lies we were told about lingerie!

 

1. Lingerie is Frivolous

Underwear is practical, sensible and a necessity, but lingerie is frivolous. This is a huge lie, but it is one that I believed for the longest time!

I mean, sure…if it’s a choice between paying rent and buying a new corset, I’m going to pay my rent, but that doesn’t mean that lingerie is  frivolous, or a waste of money. It makes me  feel good. It makes me feel confident and happy in my own skin. I feel happy, settled and sexy when I wear it.

This is absolutely not a waste of money and I should not feel guilty for buying it. And neither should you!

 

2. Lingerie isn’t for Good Girls

Oh, this is a huge one. Lingerie isn’t for good, upstanding women. I hate this one with a passion. You are allowed to be body positive, confident and sexy without being shamed. It doesn’t make you a bad girl: and even if it did, it doesn’t matter!

As long as you are keeping yourself and others safe, it doesn’t matter what you decide to do. It’s your body, your choice and you shouldn’t feel guilty for enjoying yourself. Lingerie is for everyone who wants to enjoy it, and no one can tell you otherwise.

 

3. Needing Lingerie Means Your Relationship is failing.

If you have to rely on sexy lingerie, that must mean that your relationship is failing, right? Wrong! There is absolutely nothing wrong with spicing up your relationship a bit by wearing something pretty in the bedroom.

Its not shameful or wrong and it certainly doesn’t mean that your relationship is failing! Don’t believe what anyone else tells you. Your relationship can be healthy and happy, and you can enjoy looking beautiful for him.

Additionally, you can enjoy looking good for yourself. You don’t even have to be in a relationship to love lingerie. Enjoy what you love and embrace what makes you who you are. If that means wearing a silk corset, or a pretty matching set, go for it! You’re not failing, you are succeeding in more ways than you could possibly imagine. I promise you!

And don’t forget to treat yourself with a piece of Erotic Lingerie or Elegant Lingerie coupled with a body harness fashion lingerie or body chain fashion lingerie!

Were you told any of these things by your parents? Have you ever believed them, or are you in the process of overcoming them? Remember, lingerie is for everyone, and everyone deserves to feel good, feel sexy and enjoy themselves in their own, authentic way. Be proud of who you are and don’t believe the lies about sexy lingerie. You’re worth more than that!